1.Introduction
Language is the primary means of communication and the medium of human thought. It is a reflection of society. Men and women have always been viewed as distinct and unique groups of people, regardless of whether these gender differences exist in the manner in which they communicate, influence, or lead [1]. As a social and cultural phenomenon, gender differences will inevitably manifest in language. According to the idiom, "Men and women are different," this sentence is about the gender difference in language between men and women [2]. Gender distinctions in language have specific social origins that reflect specific social phenomena and change as society evolves. There is a close relationship between language, gender, and culture, according to some. Regardless of the content or form of speech, men and women express themselves differently, resulting in communication barriers and misunderstandings [3]. Numerous studies have demonstrated that the major differences between male and female speech modes are reflected in intonation, verbal expression, and nonverbal behaviour. This distinction has significant implications for social interaction, affective expression, and workplace expression. According to the findings of some researchers, expressing distinction can have an effect on social interactions [3]. Women typically employ a gentler tone of voice and language, which can facilitate the development of intimacy and friendships. On the other hand, men tend to use language that is more direct and assertive, which helps to demonstrate their confidence and authority. Moreover, emotional communication is impacted by the differences in how boys and girls communicate. Women are more likely to convey their emotions and feelings, as they place greater emphasis on emotional expression and empathy. Men are more likely to convey their emotions through behavior, such as physical support and affection, than through words. According to other studies, women tend to give more attention to detail and expression and are more likely to use indirect language, which facilitates good communication and cooperation. Men, on the other hand, tend to emphasise competence and efficacy through direct verbal expressions.
This paper employs example analysis to demonstrate the distinction between formal and informal communication. It aids in familiarising individuals with gender differences in daily communication and elucidating their causes. Therefore, individuals can communicate with wisdom and emotional intelligence on a daily basis.
2.Analysis
Communication between the sexes can be facilitated by an awareness of the linguistic disparities between them. it is a good way to reduce communication friction by applying the right approach informed by a thorough grasp of gender-specific linguistic distinctions and the ability to form distinct opinions about such phenomena.
2.1.Exact Words with Different Implications
The exact words spoken by men and women can have distinct connotations and implications. Paul Grice, a philosopher, contends that truth-conditional semantics cannot explain how individuals mean something other than the literal meaning of a sentence [4]. He proposes a theory of meaning founded on intentions. In proposing the concept of meaning, a distinction was made between natural and non-natural meanings. During school or work, males and females always discuss something together. They must alter their perspective on a specific project and discover a superior solution. During this time, individuals must observe attentively and provide responses or opinions. Both men and women convey their opinions through affirmative responses, such as saying "Yes". When others speak, females frequently respond with "Yes, yes, right," whereas males do so less frequently or infrequently. Both males and females express the same sentiment through the use of identical language. However, the implied meaning is significantly distinct. Females imply that they hear you and encourage you to continue speaking, or that they support the communication, but that they do not necessarily concur with the opinions of others. In contrast, males imply that, despite the fact that males rarely say yes or correct, when they do, their implicature indicates that they concur with what others are saying [4]. Females are more concerned with the communication environment and the encouragement of interaction. They always deliberate for a considerable amount of time before expressing their disagreement politely and appropriately, so as to maintain a pleasant communication environment. While others speak, they always respond with affirmative phrases such as "yes" or "right" to keep the conversation flowing effortlessly and nicely. Compared to men's traditionalism and rationality, women are more particular and delicate. In contrast, males are more courageous and direct than girls. When they answer yes or right, it is clear that they concur with others. Similarly, when individuals of various genders wish to praise a woman, they may both say, "You look absolutely stunning today." These phrases, when spoken in a light, complimentary tone around females, can indicate a compliment on the individual's appearance. However, males may have a distinct meaning when they compliment a female in this manner. They may wish to express their affection and appreciation for her, as well as attract her attention.
2.2.Same Meaning with Different Expression
When boys and girls want to convey the same meaning and accomplish the same objective, they use distinct expressions. These distinctions are socially constructed. When a boy sees a nice watch and desires his father to purchase it for him, he may ask his father, "Can you buy me this watch, Dad?" I like it." On the other hand, a female may be more descriptive and conceal her intentions. They may say, "Look, Dad. This timepiece is magnificent. Examine the silver gear and blue electron light contained within. The basic design of the strap is supple. This watch face complements the strap perfectly. I like it." In this situation, the girl and the boy want their father to purchase them a watch. However, they use distinct words to communicate their ideas, despite having the same intent and connotation. Typically, men are more forthright. When they desire something, they always use the phrase "I like it." When they need someone to buy something for them, they ask you directly if you can do so. Girls, on the other hand, are always used to expressing their notions in euphemistic terms. When viewing the same object, women's perceptions and expressions will be more nuanced and precise. When describing an object or expressing a strong desire for something, they will first describe the object's texture, appearance, material, color, and other characteristics in detail, as a subtle expression of their affection. These natural meanings conceal multiple meanings. In lieu of stating, I want you to purchase this for me, they indicate their intent by expressing their appreciation and affection. The study revealed that males employ generalisations and conclusions such as "anyway" and "in short".
On the other hand, women use more specific, close-to-life terms, such as "fruit" and "friends." In addition, they frequently use "besides" and "beyond that" to characterise the same information. In general, women are accustomed to discussing specific topics in their daily lives. Compared to men's traditionalism and rationality, women are more intricate and delicate [5]. In addition, women rarely express their true beauty. For instance, when individuals go out with multiple friends, a youngster who is hungry may tell his friend, "I am extremely hungry. Let's purchase some hamburgers and refreshments at that KFC." When females go out with friends and feel hungry while seeing something they really want to consume, they weigh a number of factors in their minds before expressing their desires. They may say, "This restaurant appears to be very nice" or "This bread appears to be very tasty." It induces compulsive appetites. However, I may gain weight after consuming it, which is unfortunate." As a result, we can see that when boys and girls wish to express the same concept, they tend to use distinct expressions. Boys are more likely to express their desires with courage and candor, and their sentences are shorter. However, women frequently assign their own meaning to certain expressions. The exact words spoken by men and women can have distinct connotations and implications. Paul Grice, a philosopher, contends that truth-conditional semantics cannot explain how individuals mean something other than the literal meaning of a sentence. He proposes a theory of meaning founded on intentions. In proposing the concept of meaning, a distinction was made between natural and non-natural meanings. During school or work, males and females always discuss something together. They must alter their perspective on a specific project and discover a superior solution. During this time, individuals must observe attentively and provide responses or opinions. Both men and women convey their opinions through affirmative responses, such as saying "Yes." When others speak, females frequently respond with "Yes, yes, right," whereas males do so less frequently or infrequently. Both males and females express the same sentiment through the use of identical language. However, the implied meaning is significantly distinct. Females imply that they hear you and encourage you to continue speaking, or that they support our communication, but that they do not necessarily concur with the opinions of others. In contrast, males imply that, despite the fact that they rarely say yes or correct, when they do, their implicature indicates that they concur with what others are saying [4]. Females are more concerned with the communication environment and the encouragement of interaction. They always deliberate for a considerable amount of time before expressing their disagreement politely and appropriately, so as to maintain a pleasant communication environment. While others speak, they always respond with affirmative phrases such as "yes" or "right" to keep the conversation flowing effortlessly and nicely. Compared to men's traditionalism and rationality, women are more particular and delicate. In contrast, males are more courageous and direct than girls. When they answer yes or right, it is clear that they concur with others. Similarly, when individuals of various genders wish to praise a woman, they may both say, "You look absolutely stunning today." These phrases, when spoken in a light, complimentary tone around females, can indicate a compliment on the individual's appearance. However, males may have a distinct meaning when they compliment a female in this manner. They may wish to express their affection and appreciation for her, as well as attract her attention.
2.3.Focusing on Different Dimensions during Communication
Occasionally, men and women have vastly different communication objectives. They are unable to communicate effectively due to their constantly divergent perspectives. Men are problem-solving in their interactions. For males, the objectives of a conversation are dominance and measurable outcomes. They place a higher premium on their end objective and independence. Conversations from the male perspective tend to be more pragmatic, with an emphasis on problem identification and resolution [6]. However, women are always more concerned with the attitudes, emotions, and sentiments surrounding a particular event. When females approach others for a solution to a problem, for instance, they expect a comprehensive and alternative response. In contrast, men are more likely to solve problems in advance, frequently coming up with what they believe to be the most effective and shortest solution and then presenting it to women. However, that is the issue. As observers, women frequently disapprove of this. As observers, women want to sense that the other person is paying attention to the problem they are presenting, rather than simply offering a solution. They are more likely to receive a response with multiple facets. They desire carefully considered, selectable responses. In addition, sociolinguistic research has demonstrated that males tend to emphasise hierarchy and independence, whereas women emphasise closeness and solidarity [7].
A separate social division of labour endows the two sexes with distinct linguistic characteristics, so they must consider one another when communicating. The effective management of these differences facilitates communication between the sexes and the advancement of society. In addition, the study could teach both sexes proper listening techniques. Men and women articulate themselves differently; therefore, we should allow each other ample opportunity to express ourselves without interruption. Moreover, people should not presume that women are merely speaking politely and that their opinions are unimportant because they speak politely. In contrast, if a man speaks directly and decisively, women should learn to take it and understand that this is a typical male pattern, not an indication of authoritarianism or insensitivity.
3.Conclusion
In conclusion, it is impossible to prevent gender differences in daily communication. Due to their different brain structures, the majority of men have developed the left hemisphere, whereas the majority of women have developed the right hemisphere [6], which is biologically determined by the habit of thinking differently between men and women; their different social statuses and habitats, man and women talk and think in a very different manner. Females may communicate, ponder, and experience more than males. We should recognise and embrace these differences in our daily lives.
This study still contains several shortcomings that must be addressed. The author did not conduct a comprehensive, authoritative social survey, nor did the paper take into account all conceivable situations and age groups. The author will continue to investigate and discover additional differences in communication forms, languages, and intentions in the future.
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Cite this article
Jiang,G. (2023). Analysis on Daily Communication Differences Between Males and Females. Communications in Humanities Research,5,442-446.
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References
[1]. Legal representative of Nanchang investment Consulting Co, LTD. The actual embodiment of thinking difference between men and women in real life. 2020. https://zhuanlan.zhihu.com/p/341154543
[2]. Karima Merchant. How Men And Women Differ: Gender Differences in Communication Styles, Influence Tactics, and Leadership Styles [J]. CMC Senior Theses, 2012, 513.
[3]. Michael Grinder and Associates. 5 Gender Differences In Communication - Verbal and Nonverbal Styles. 2022. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVk0vnVpe-E&t=53s
[4]. Peking University of Psychology. From the existing research of psychology, what are the significant "gender differences" between women and men in psychological level? 2018. https://www.zhihu.com/question/268399258
[5]. Cao Shan, Zhou Fengling An exploration of gender differences in vocabulary use [J]. Examination Weekly. 2019, 44-50.
[6]. Rachel Moheban-Wachtel, Four Differences in Male and Female Communication [J]. The relationship suite. 2019, 33.
[7]. David Gefen and Detmar W. Straub Gender Differences in the Perception and Use of E-Mail: An Extension to the Technology Acceptance Model [J]. JSTOR. 1997, 45.